tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post5155786639065801861..comments2023-10-06T09:28:45.037+01:00Comments on This is a Title: Ummm...NOT the last of the 'friendly' posts??!http://www.blogger.com/profile/03791417518093723373noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-75961928097302509122008-07-18T16:23:00.000+01:002008-07-18T16:23:00.000+01:00Friendship > Threesome! NEVER!!! :))Friendship > Threesome! NEVER!!! :))kmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16040339235134145847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-57685831252659792362008-07-18T15:42:00.000+01:002008-07-18T15:42:00.000+01:00it was a bad one....sorry guys :(it was a bad one....sorry guys :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-57268020971593894962008-07-18T15:15:00.000+01:002008-07-18T15:15:00.000+01:00@ KM...guess always happens when there is more tha...@ KM...<BR/><BR/>guess always happens when there is more than 2.....<BR/>unless a love triangle with the 3rd person gay/lesbian ;-pAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-15726854928181905482008-07-18T15:14:00.000+01:002008-07-18T15:14:00.000+01:00Dipali:What you say is true too. And as Spark says...Dipali:<BR/>What you say is true too. And as Spark says, as with friendships, so with relationships. I guess the trick is to realise that people change, and those changes may diverge, and never shall the twain meet.<BR/><BR/>Spark:<BR/>I'm going to let someone else handle that example. Falsie, if he'll have it (that should be fun).<BR/><BR/>KM:<BR/>Ah yes. We've discussed this somewhere before ??!https://www.blogger.com/profile/03791417518093723373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-44758339355012520152008-07-18T15:11:00.000+01:002008-07-18T15:11:00.000+01:00with specific expectations ingrained in itYes, and...<I>with specific expectations ingrained in it</I><BR/><BR/>Yes, and that's also part of the problem, isn't it, Spark? <BR/><BR/>I am surprised that no one brought up the "3 friends" phenomenon. A and B are friends, B and C are friends, A, B and C are collectively friends, but A and C are not close at all. I am sure we've all been part of such a dynamic in school and college.kmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16040339235134145847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-41604170013266658182008-07-18T15:01:00.000+01:002008-07-18T15:01:00.000+01:00on a more serious note....isnt every relationship ...on a more serious note....isnt every relationship bound by certain code of conduct, with specific expectations ingrained in it.....which again pretty much defines the role one plays!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-74385716760879664132008-07-18T14:56:00.000+01:002008-07-18T14:56:00.000+01:00....ok now m talking about relationships in genera.......ok now m talking about relationships in general n not just friendship......wat kind of a relationship wud u call it where one is a giver and the other reciever...<BR/>ok guys dont know y...but ths eg. popped up my head....radha & krishna Vs krishna & meera....:)<BR/>(pl dont kill me..pl dont kill me)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-22168966657204862202008-07-18T14:40:00.000+01:002008-07-18T14:40:00.000+01:00Tough one. If the friendship no longer nourishes y...Tough one. If the friendship no longer nourishes your soul or your ego or your heart or some other important part of you, it may not be worth pursuing, just for old times sake. And of course, like socks and clothes, we can and do outgrow some friends. I guess its something like shedding one's skin over time, or changing at a molecular/cellular level. Some friendships made in adulthood have the dipalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01070862196307376073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-6525421968523204942008-07-18T14:28:00.000+01:002008-07-18T14:28:00.000+01:00KM:Who knows? We're all just making this stuff up ...KM:<BR/>Who knows? We're all just making this stuff up as we go.<BR/><BR/>spark:<BR/>Ah. But if you <I>don't</I> have expectations, then doesn't it make it easier to deal with the relationship???!https://www.blogger.com/profile/03791417518093723373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-84682384623041535552008-07-18T13:19:00.000+01:002008-07-18T13:19:00.000+01:00Amen to that last sentence.Amen to that last sentence.Shammihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07905000396589717457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-75566545060086864482008-07-18T13:15:00.000+01:002008-07-18T13:15:00.000+01:00@ KM.....without needs....u dont have expectations...@ KM.....<BR/><BR/>without needs....u dont have expectations.....all these are ingredients for any relationship.....nehi to khali phokat idol worship!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-56379264881196429732008-07-18T13:05:00.000+01:002008-07-18T13:05:00.000+01:00The friends I have today are the friends I really ...<I>The friends I have today are the friends I really want, and need.</I><BR/><BR/>Isn't that the truth. <BR/><BR/>A philosopher will probably look at this concept of friendship and consider it too selfish and too narrow. <BR/><BR/>Wants and needs are the basic foundations for an employment agreement. But for a strong friendship?kmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16040339235134145847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-37219774283171234182008-07-18T12:06:00.000+01:002008-07-18T12:06:00.000+01:00lekhni:Is my reasoning too.Spark:That's quite true...lekhni:<BR/>Is my reasoning too.<BR/><BR/>Spark:<BR/>That's quite true, too. So a mix of option 1 and 3???!https://www.blogger.com/profile/03791417518093723373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-91776498925722085132008-07-18T06:00:00.000+01:002008-07-18T06:00:00.000+01:00as they say....no point carry dead weight....life ...as they say....no point carry dead weight....life is too short.....as long as we r still ticking.....chill maari :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-14631075378056303672008-07-18T05:55:00.000+01:002008-07-18T05:55:00.000+01:00but in cases where people have drifted apart to qu...but in cases where people have drifted apart to quite some extent......which with time becomes almost unbridgeable...even occaional meetings dont help....i guess u should just let them be......till the point in time where they fade into oblivion...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29988784.post-64700309319347567672008-07-18T00:24:00.000+01:002008-07-18T00:24:00.000+01:00Maintaining friendships is a two way street. So th...Maintaining friendships is a two way street. So the friends you have are also the ones who have made some effort to say in touch with you :)<BR/><BR/>So I'd vote for option 3.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com